Connection Provoking Conversations
Stop avoiding
the tension...
start having the conversations that bring you closer.
5-Nights of Guided Intimate Conversations for Married Couples
to Get Deeper and Create More Meaningful Connection
Stop avoiding
the tension...
start having the conversations that bring you closer.
5-Nights of Guided Intimate Conversations for Married Couples
to Get Deeper and Create More Meaningful Connection
"We come home to each other every single day... but if we're honest, we haven't had a truly meaningful conversation in months."
"We come home to each other every single day... but if we're honest, we haven't had a truly meaningful conversation in months."
Maybe you've never said those exact words out loud...
but somewhere along the way, your conversations changed.
Between work, children, bills, responsibilities, schedules...
You still talk, but just not about the things that matter. And if it's not about the weekend, the mortgage, or your plans for dinner tonight...
You barely talk.
From the outside, everything looks fine.
But behind closed doors...
you know there's another level of honesty, understanding, and connection that's been lost.
That's exactly why we created Connection Provoking Conversations.
Not to solve every challenge in your marriage.
Not to fix years of hurt in a few conversations.
But to help couples intentionally create the space for conversations that often go unspoken.
Maybe you've never said those exact words out loud...
but somewhere along the way, your conversations changed.
Between work, children, bills, responsibilities, schedules...
You still talk, but just not about the things that matter. And if it's not about the weekend, the mortgage, or your plans for dinner tonight...
You barely talk.
From the outside, everything looks fine.
But behind closed doors...
you know there's another level of honesty, understanding, and connection that's been lost.
That's exactly why we created Connection Provoking Conversations.
Not to solve every challenge in your marriage.
Not to fix years of hurt in a few conversations.
But to help couples intentionally create the space for conversations that often go unspoken.
From tension to reconnection.
01. Break Through the Surface
Move beyond the same ol' surface-level talks and dive deeper into conversations that reveal more of what your spouse has been holding in and keeping back.
02. Spark Genuine Reconnection
Through five guided conversational areas, create space for more honesty, vulnerability, and emotionally-intimate openness with one another (without wondering what to say next).
03. Create New Conversation Standards
Follow a practical framework for approaching difficult conversations with more understanding, intentionality, and emotional maturity.
From tension to reconnection.
01. Break Through the Surface
Move beyond the same ol' surface-level talks and dive deeper into conversations that reveal more of what your spouse has been holding in and keeping back.
02. Spark Genuine Reconnection
Through five guided conversational areas, create space for more honesty, vulnerability, and emotionally-intimate openness with one another (without wondering what to say next).
03. Create New Conversation Standards
Follow a practical framework for approaching difficult conversations with more understanding, intentionality, and emotional maturity.
The 5-Night Journey
Connection Conversations Highlights
NIGHT ONE
The First Spark
Opening the door with the one conversation that many couples have been meaning to have for a long time.
The 5-Night Journey
Conversation Highlights
NIGHT ONE
The First Spark
Opening the door with the one conversation that many couples have been meaning to have for a long time.
NIGHT TWO
"I've Been Meaning to Tell You..."
Giving a voice to the thoughts and feelings that have quietly stayed beneath the surface.
NIGHT TWO
"I've Been Meaning to Tell You..."
Giving a voice to the thoughts and feelings that have quietly stayed beneath the surface.
NIGHT THREE
Turning Point
Exploring the experiences that changed the way you see and engage with one another.
NIGHT THREE
Turning Point
Exploring the experiences that changed the way you see and engage with one another.
NIGHT FOUR
"Can You Help Me Understand?"
Creating space to understand the experiences that quietly influence the way you love, trust, and respond today.
NIGHT FOUR
"Can You Help Me Understand?"
Creating space to understand the experiences that quietly influence the way you love, trust, and respond today.
NIGHT FIVE
The Honest Mirror
Taking a genuine look within and creating space to talk about the areas impacting your relationship the most.
NIGHT FIVE
The Honest Mirror
Taking a genuine look within and creating space to talk about the areas impacting your relationship the most.
EVERYTHING YOU RECIEVE
The complete conversation kit
EVERYTHING YOU RECIEVE
The complete conversation kit
FIVE VIDEO LESSONS
The Video Guide
More than a series of videos, this guide prepares you for each conversation, helping you understand the purpose behind every step, what to expect, and how to create the kind of environment where meaningful conversations can happen naturally.
FOR HIM
Husband's Workbook
More than a workbook, this companion prepares you before every conversation, coaches you through difficult moments, provides guided follow-up questions, and helps you continue building on each breakthrough together.
FOR HER
Wife's Workbook
Built to be used alongside each video conversation, this companion walks you through every step with coaching insights, guided prompts, conversation continuations, and practical reflections designed to help you get the most from every conversation.
FIVE VIDEO LESSONS
The Video Guide
More than a series of videos, this guide prepares you for each conversation, helping you understand the purpose behind every step, what to expect, and how to create the kind of environment where meaningful conversations can happen naturally.
FOR HIM
Husband's Workbook
More than a workbook, this companion prepares you before every conversation, coaches you through difficult moments, provides guided follow-up questions, and helps you continue building on each breakthrough together.
FOR HER
Wife's Workbook
Built to be used alongside each video conversation, this companion walks you through every step with coaching insights, guided prompts, conversation continuations, and practical reflections designed to help you get the most from every conversation.
Start having the conversations that
will draw you closer...
GET YOUR CONVERSATIONS KIT AND START TODAY
Start having the conversations that will draw you closer...
GET YOUR CONVERSATIONS KIT AND START TODAY
FAQ'S
What exactly is the Connection-Provoking Conversations Video Guide?
It's a series of five guided, intimate conversations designed to help married couples have the conversations they've been avoiding in a genuine, intentional way. It combines short video lessons with individual workbook & implementation guides for both husband and wife, so you can move beyond surface-level conversations and truly reconnect behind closed doors.
Do we have to complete it over five consecutive nights?
Nope. These conversaitons were designed to be had in a progressive way. We've had couples have these discussions over five days, and others over five weeks. Follow the pace that's natural to your relationship without skipping, jumping ahead, or leaving any without discussing.
How long does each conversation take?
It's common to spend between 30 and 60 minutes on each conversation, but there's no right pace. Some conversations may be shorter, while others naturally take longer.
Does this include Couple's Coaching Sessions?
No. This is a self-guided process that includes the complete video guide and implementation workbook. If you're looking for personalized coaching, accountability, and ongoing support, we recommend exploring one of our Cultivate Marriage Coaching Programs.
Will this still help if we haven't had a deep conversation in months or years?
Yes. Many couples don't struggle because they don't care about each other, but because they simply haven't created intentional space for meaningful conversations in a very long time. These conversaitons are the ideal way to break the tension and invite emotional intimacy back into your relationship. As long as both spouses are willing to be fully present and follow this conversational process, they will see and feel a difference.
What if we get stuck?
That's valid and it's also why this isn't just a list of conversation questions. Throughout the videos and workbook, we've included coaching, practical guidance, and prompts to help you navigate common roadblocks, reflect more deeply, and keep the conversation moving.
Can we copy or share the material with others?
No, the Video Guide and Implementation Workbooks are solely for the use of the couple who purchased.
How will these materials be delivered and how long do I have access to them?
All materials are sent straight to your email as soon as you purchase. You’ll get immediate access to your Video Guide, Husband's Workbook & Implementation Guide and Wives Workbook & Implementation Guide. All materials are yours to keep.
We have another question, who do we contact?
We're more than happy to answer your question. Send us an email at [email protected] and we'll be in touch with you.
Meet Your Coaches
Tazadaq & Zakah
Marriage Coaches
Peace and blessings,
We’ve been on a mission, as Certified Marriage Coaches, to help motivated married couples stop settling for a marriage that only looks good on paper—and build one that genuinely thrives behind closed doors. Marriage isn’t easy—especially when balancing careers, kids, and life’s demands. We know because we’ve lived it.
As entrepreneurs, parents raising a blended family, and servants of the Living God—we understand the silent struggles, unspoken frustrations, and pressure to keep everything together.
Early in our marriage, we faced challenges that tested our faith, commitment, and our ability to deeply connect. Those years sent us on a journey to understand why so many committed couples put real effort into their marriage... yet still not experience the relationship they deeply desire.
Through Biblical wisdom, relationship psychology, and lived experience, we’ve built a proven process that breaks barriers, restores intimacy, and transforms marriages.
We believe marriage is more than just "making it work"—it's a God-given partnership built on trust, connection, and purpose.
Let’s build the marriage you both desire.
Real Couples. Real Experiences.
From couples who've experienced our coaching, workshops, and resources.
Real Couples. Real Experiences.
From couples who've experienced our coaching, workshops, and resources.
FAQ'S
What exactly is the Connection-Provoking Conversations Video Guide?
It's a series of five guided, intimate conversations designed to help married couples have the conversations they've been avoiding in a genuine, intentional way. It combines short video lessons with individual workbook & implementation guides for both husband and wife, so you can move beyond surface-level conversations and truly reconnect behind closed doors.
Do we have to complete it over five consecutive nights?
Nope. These conversaitons were designed to be had in a progressive way. We've had couples have these discussions over five days, and others over five weeks. Follow the pace that's natural to your relationship without skipping, jumping ahead, or leaving any without discussing.
How long does each conversation take?
It's common to spend between 30 and 60 minutes on each conversation, but there's no right pace. Some conversations may be shorter, while others naturally take longer.
Does this include Couple's Coaching Sessions?
No. This is a self-guided process that includes the complete video guide and implementation workbook. If you're looking for personalized coaching, accountability, and ongoing support, we recommend exploring one of our Cultivate Marriage Coaching Programs.
Will this still help if we haven't had a deep conversation in months or years?
Yes. Many couples don't struggle because they don't care about each other, but because they simply haven't created intentional space for meaningful conversations in a very long time. These conversaitons are the ideal way to break the tension and invite emotional intimacy back into your relationship. As long as both spouses are willing to be fully present and follow this conversational process, they will see and feel a difference.
What if we get stuck?
That's valid and it's also why this isn't just a list of conversation questions. Throughout the videos and workbook, we've included coaching, practical guidance, and prompts to help you navigate common roadblocks, reflect more deeply, and keep the conversation moving.
Can we copy or share the material with others?
No, the Video Guide and Implementation Workbooks are solely for the use of the couple who purchased.
How will these materials be delivered and how long do I have access to them?
All materials are sent straight to your email as soon as you purchase. You’ll get immediate access to your Video Guide, Husband's Workbook & Implementation Guide and Wives Workbook & Implementation Guide. All materials are yours to keep.
We have another question, who do we contact?
We're more than happy to answer your question. Send us an email at [email protected] and we'll be in touch with you.
Tazadaq & Zakah
Marriage Coaches
Meet Your Coaches
Peace and blessings,
We’ve been on a mission, as Certified Marriage Coaches, to help motivated married couples stop settling for a marriage that only looks good on paper—and build one that genuinely thrives behind closed doors. Marriage isn’t easy—especially when balancing careers, kids, and life’s demands. We know because we’ve lived it.
As entrepreneurs, parents raising a blended family, and servants of the Living God—we understand the silent struggles, unspoken frustrations, and pressure to keep everything together.
Early in our marriage, we faced challenges that tested our faith, commitment, and our ability to deeply connect. Those years sent us on a journey to understand why so many committed couples put real effort into their marriage... yet still not experience the relationship they deeply desire.
Through Biblical wisdom, relationship psychology, and lived experience, we’ve built a proven process that breaks barriers, restores intimacy, and transforms marriages.
We believe marriage is more than just "making it work"—it's a God-given partnership built on trust, connection, and purpose.
Let’s build the marriage you both desire.
Tazadaq & Zakah
Marriage Coaches
Meet Your Coaches
Peace and blessings,
We’re Tazadaq and Zakah, Relationship & Marriage Coaches. We work with ambitious and goal-driven couples in their first 10 years of marriage improve their communication, build Naked Trust™, and have a genuine-reconnection without losing focus of their goals.
At one point we were that exact same couple until we went through the journey that would change things for us for good. We’re extremely passionate about relationships and inspiring authentic reconnection and trust between spouses who are busy professionals, devoted parents, dedicated ministry leaders and aspire to leave legacies behind for their children.
Together, we have a blended family of 5 children (5 - 27 years of age). We’re entrepreneurs and business co-owners and both involved in the Lord's work. We both come from full-time work and active co-parenting and step-parenting. Part of what we teach is what we’ve experienced first hand.
Now we created a well-thought-out process that helps other couples create the relationship they both secretly desire, and completely deserve.
Real Couples. Real Experiences.
From couples who've experienced our coaching, workshops, and resources.
